OMG! (oh my god)
Freakin', Frickin or Friggin' (depending on your preference)
What the crap!?
These are a few popular euphemisms that I've seen in text messages and hear from folks (especially teens) all the time. Here's the the definition listed at dictionary.com: the substitution of a mild, indirect or vague expression for one thought to be offensive, harsh or blunt.
Do you say any of these words? When you read them, don't they seem obnoxious or at least a little tacky or uncouth? Have you ever given thought to what you're saying - or allowing your kids to say? You may as well be swearing. When we use these words, everyone knows what we mean. We choose not to swear because it's wrong - because it's a sin. So why would we say these words? If you don't want your kids saying the "real" words, do you really want them saying these?
Something to think about.
Jeremy
What a great thought. I think a lot of people forget what they're actually saying when they say these things. But, once you've thought about it, it's really an assault on the ears to hear it!
ReplyDeleteWhen I read your post, a passage came up in my mind and I think it's definitely a good reminder for all of us. Matthew 12:35-37
35. The good man brings good things out of the good stored up in him, and the evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in him. 36. But I tell you that men will have to give account on the day of judgment for every careless word they have spoken. 37. For by your words you will be acquitted, and by your words you will be condemned."
Thanks again for the thought!
It does seem that young people especially like to push the limits on what comes out of their mouths. Not enough to call it swearing but enough that it makes you cringe just the same. Something I have noticed, even by the kids who regularly attend worship, is using God's name in vain! I think it has become a real problem but I also think it is something that can be fixed. Parents need to lead the way by example, and have a no tolerance policy for bad behavior. What a great verse used above. Appreciate you talking about this topic. Thank you!
ReplyDeleteYou're right. As parents, we have to lead the way on this. We wouldn't allow our child to use a "4 letter word," so take it to the next step and make sure they understand that any language like this won't be allowed.
ReplyDeleteThen the hard part, practice what we preach.
Jeremy